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Business Strategy with Hirav Shah                                   OCTOBER 25, 2024       |  The Indian Eye 32


               Do You Like to Find Excuses like I Don’t have



          enough time? How Honest Are You with Yourself?



            In life, we often encounter tasks or challenges that we’d rather avoid. To sidestep them, we

                resort to making excuses. But how often do we truly face the reality of our situation?


                                                                                                                strategize for growth mindset
                                                                                                              Q:  How do excuses  affect  personal
                                                                                                              growth and progress?
                                                                                                                  A: Excuses can hinder personal
                                                                                                              growth and progress by preventing
                                                                                                              us from facing challenges and taking
                                                                                                              necessary actions.
                                                                                                              Q: How can I identify my excuses?
                                                                                                                  A: Pay attention to the reasons
                                                                                                              you give for not taking action or
                                                                                                              avoiding tasks.
                                                                                                              Q: What can I do to overcome excuses?
                                                                                                                  A: To overcome excuses, start by
                    Hirav Shah            Excuses can hinder personal growth and progress by preventing us from facing challenges and   challenging their validity. Ask yourself
                                                           taking necessary actions (File/Agency photo)       if your excuses are based on genuine
           n this blog post, we’ll delve into   others and using perceived inade-                             constraints or if they’re simply barriers
                                                                                                              you’ve created to avoid discomfort.
           the world of excuses, explore the                                Execution:
        Iimportance of honesty with one-    quacy as an excuse to avoid trying   • Put your understanding and strate-  Q: Is it okay to struggle or face chal-
                                            or improving.
                                                                                                              lenges?
        self, and provide actionable strategies   Q: What are excuses, and why do we   gy into action:            A: Yes, it’s completely normal to
        to overcome excuses and pursue per-  make them?                     • Identify Your Excuses: Keep a   struggle or face challenges. Growth
        sonal growth.                     A: Excuses are explanations we give to   journal or mental note of the excus-  often involves overcoming obstacles
        Are you relating to any of        justify why we haven’t taken action or   es you make in various situations.  and  learning from  setbacks.  Be  pa-
        the below excuses?                fulfilled our responsibilities. We make   • Challenge Your  Excuses:  When   tient with yourself and recognize that
                                                                              you catch yourself making excuses,
        1. “I don’t have enough time.”: Put-  excuses because we often feel uncom-  pause and question their validity.   progress takes time.
          ting off exercise or healthy eating   fortable facing challenges or taking   Are they based on reality, or are   Q: How can self-compassion help in
          because of a busy schedule.     risks, so our minds try to protect us by                            overcoming excuses?
                                                                              they limiting beliefs?
        2. “I’m too tired.”: Skipping out on   finding reasons to avoid them.  • Take Proactive Steps: Instead of   A: Self-compassion involves be-
          social activities or hobbies because   Explanation:                 succumbing to excuses, take small,   ing kind to yourself and acknowledg-
          of fatigue.                                                                                         ing that it’s okay to make mistakes or
                                              Excuses often arise from a de-
        3. “It’s too difficult.”: Avoiding learn-  sire to protect ourselves from fail-  manageable actions towards your   encounter difficulties.
                                                                              goals. Break tasks down into smaller
          ing a new skill or hobby because it   ure or discomfort. When faced with   steps and tackle them one at a time.  Q: What should I do if I keep making excus-
          seems challenging.                                                                                  es despite my efforts to overcome them?
        4. “I’m not good enough.”: Holding   a daunting task or challenge, our   • Practice  Self-Compassion:  Be  pa-  A: If you find yourself constant-
                                          minds instinctively search for reasons
                                                                              tient with yourself and acknowl-
          back from pursuing a new job or   to avoid it. By understanding the psy-  edge that progress takes time. Cel-  ly making excuses, consider seeking
          promotion due to self-doubt.                                                                        support from friends, family, or a
        5. “I’ll do it later.”: Procrastinating   chology behind excuses, we can bet-  ebrate your efforts, even if they’re   professional counselor.
                                          ter recognize and address them.
                                                                              small, and learn from setbacks
          on tasks or responsibilities that                                   along the way.                  Conclusion:
          could be done now.              Strategy:
                                                                                                                  Excuses are natural defense
        6. “I’ll start tomorrow.”: Delaying the   • To overcome excuses, it’s crucial to  Example:            mechanisms, but  they  can  hold us
          start of a new habit or goal because   adopt a mindset of self-awareness   • Imagine you’ve been putting off   back from realizing our full potential.
          it’s more convenient to begin at a   and accountability. This involves:  starting  a  fitness  routine  because   By understanding the psychology be-
          later time.                     • Identifying Excuses: Take a moment   you tell yourself you’re too busy.
        7. “I don’t have the resources.”: Us-  to reflect on the excuses you tend   • By  identifying  this  excuse  and   hind excuses, adopting a mindset of
                                                                                                              self-awareness and accountability,
          ing lack of equipment or materials   to make and the situations in which   challenging  its  validity,  you  re-  and taking proactive steps towards
          as  an  excuse  to  avoid  starting  a   they arise. Are they based on gen-  alize  that  you could  carve  out   our goals, we can overcome excus-
          project or pursuing a passion.    uine constraints or deeper fears?  time by adjusting your sched-
        8. “I’m too old/young.”: Believing   • Challenging Excuses: Question the   ule  or  prioritizing  exercise.  es and pursue personal growth with
                                                                                                              honesty and authenticity. So, the next
          that age is a limitation for trying   validity of your excuses. Are they   • Taking proactive steps, such as   time you catch yourself making ex-
          new things or making changes in   legitimate reasons or mere barriers   scheduling workouts in advance or   cuses, ask yourself: How honest am I
          life.                             you’ve created to avoid discomfort   finding short, convenient exercises,
        9. “I’m too busy.”: Neglecting to pri-  or risk?                      helps you overcome your excuse   being with myself, and what steps can
                                                                                                              I take to overcome them?
          oritize self-care activities such as   • Cultivating Self-Compassion: Rec-  and make progress towards your
          meditation, relaxation, or hobbies   ognize that it’s okay to struggle or   fitness goals.            The writer is a well known Business
          due to a packed schedule.         face challenges. Be kind to yourself   • Let’s play quick Questions and   Turnaround Specialist, Astro Strategist,
        10. “I’ll never be as good as [some-  and acknowledge that growth of-  Answers for Excuses- it may clear     and BestSelling Author.
          one else].”: Comparing oneself to   ten involves overcoming obstacles.  many doubts and can help you to   [email protected]


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