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SPECIAL FEATURE                                                       AUGUST 04, 2023  |     The Indian Eye 16



                                               TOWARDS BETTER LIVING

                   Mandirs: Personal Pinnings























              ery recently,  I  came  across
              a  video demonstrating a phe-
        Vnomenon known as  quantum
        locking or flux pinning. It occurs when
        a superconductor, becomes ‘trapped’
        within a magnetic field above or below
        a magnet under certain temperature
        conditions, giving the appearance of
        a floating object. When this happens,
        the superconductor ‘locks in space’
        and will not move unless acted on by
        an external force.
            It got me thinking about “quan-
        tum lockings” that exist in our own
        lives, forces that keep us rooted to who
        we are and the person we are becom-
        ing. Everyone’s “pinning” is different.
        The query for my own quantum lock-
        ing took me numerous decades into
        my past, back to a childhood memory.
            It  was  an  early  morning,  full  of
        light. Yet, my seven-year-old eyes re-
        mained unwelcoming to the rising sun.  incredibly calming. He explained to         BAPS Shri Swaminarayan Mandir, Ahmedabad, India
        “We’re here,” I heard my father say,  me that in mandirs, the ghanti is rung
        watching him peer high to the top of  to dispel our worldly thoughts, call-  hands, and I watched as she looked at   spent with my mom and dad. Sacred
        the windshield at something outside.  ing the mind to a cleaned slate. Only  the murtis of God intensely, closed her   and pure, it is also a mark of my first
        When I looked up, I was amazed by  when you empty your cup, he said, can  eyes, and bowed her head with humili-  introduction and meeting with God.
        what manifested before me. It was  you fill it. It was a way clear our minds  ty. My mother told me, that I too could   We have since moved to the Unit-
        marvelous and the most beautiful  and to announce to God our arrival at  use this time to talk to God.  ed States and settled in the small town
        thing I had ever seen!            the mandir.                           After  darshan  and prostrations,   of West New York in northern New
            It was so white, like a big cloud in   As we walked towards the center  we were given almonds, golden raisins,   Jersey. Now, as I frequent the local
        a deep blue sky and it was grand. Its  shrine, I was taken in by the scents  and sugar crystals from the sanctified   BAPS Swaminarayan  mandirs, I am
        steps welcomed us, beckoning us to  of the burning  agarbattis,  or  incense  offerings made to the murtis of God.   able to disengage from the busyness
        come inside. Before going in, my mom  sticks. I asked my father why it smelled  I still remember picking out the raisins   and trifles of life. It’s become a place
        explained that removing our shoes was  so nice. He explained to me that agar-  for myself, while my mother explained   of reset and recalibration — a sanctum
        a gesture of dual meaning. It not only  battis are lit in many Hindu rituals. Its  the significance of the prasaad to me:   that helps expel my relentless ‘fields’ of
        helped maintain and respect the sanctity  burning purifies the air and helps us  meaning grace and joy, prasaad was an   fears and doubts; and in turn, find se-
        of the place, but also signified the shed-  concentrate and easily meditate on  extension of partaking in God’s grace,   renity and strength. It’s a place where
        ding of the world behind, helping us to  the murtis, or images, of God we were  a spiritual joy.      I connect with the divine, and now, I
        focus and take in what we were about  about to witness.                 We all encounter triggers that   too call home. When I think about all
        to experience — the mandir, a Hindu   We  then  walked  into  the  inner  immediately bring us back to specific   the experiences, people, and things in
        place of worship, and the home of God.  shrine to behold the darshan of God.  moments in our past — moments that   my life that have helped me to become
            Atop the stairs, before the entranc-  Derived from the Sanskrit verb-  hold incredible meaning and value, and   who I am today and the type of per-
        es to the inner shrines was the ghanti,  root  drush,  meaning to see or per-  shape the identities we hold today. This   son I wish to still become, I find that
        the bell, which hung from atop the  ceive,  darshan,  a form of worship,  childhood  memory  marked  the  mo-  the mandir has played an immeasur-
        dome ceiling. My father picked me  refers to the act of beholding the  ments of my first visit to the BAPS Shri   able role. It has been, and continues to
        up, and I took the center clapper and  divine  images  and  all  associated  ele-  Swaminarayan Mandir in Ahmedabad,   be, my quantum locking.
        struck it to the side of the bell, creat-  ments with reverence and adoration.  India. Full of innocence and discovery,   Bhavisha Doshi,
        ing an auspicious sound, which felt  My mom showed me how to fold my  it’s a cherished memory of the time   Civil Engineer, New Jersey


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